Personal Development For Young Men
The purpose of this website is to stop you becoming a boy in a man's body and with personal development teach you to become a badass young man.
Many young males grow into a man physically but retain a juvenile attitude well into their adult years. They lack genuine manliness.
This is a generational problem and it needs to be addressed because it is crippling society and is stopping you living life to the full.
Some of the symptoms are:
- Men who cannot find self acceptance
- Men who cannot approach women and/or maintain healthy mature relationships
- Men who are overweight, eat terribly and are unhappy with their bodies
- Men who are unsatisfied with their work and career
- Men who perceive themself as inferior compared to other men
These issues are merely obstacles that can be overcome when you break through to a new level of personal development, badass manliness and start taking charge of your life. Change can happen and it boils down to these three rules:
- It's not your fault you lack manliness, it's social conditioning.
- Anybody can become more of a man if they want to.
- You don't get more masculine by changing your behavior, you get it by changing your attitude.
Rule #1 - It's Not Your Fault
It's not your fault that you are having issues. So don't blame yourself. We live in a society that emasculates men. Social conditioning messes with our biology.
10,000 years ago you would kill a lion at 14 years old and you were a man. Now it's not uncommon for a "man" in his mid twenties to still be living with his mother.
No one is teaching us how to be men anymore. No one is teaching us the values and responsibilities we need to grow nuts and a hairy chest and take true responsibility. Manliness has gone out of fashion and metrosexuality has taken over.
In our generation our male role models have been poor or absent and we have been mollycoddled by a feminized society. As Tyler Durden said in Fight Club, "We are a generation of men raised by women."
Once you stop blaming yourself for your weaknesses it is easier to change and become the man you want to be.
Having said that, by not blaming yourself it doesn't mean you can point the finger at society and do nothing but sit back and complain. You have to deal with the world you live in and the only one who can change your life is you. Let go of the blame but take charge of your own future, you must become responsible for your life.
Rule #2 - Anybody Can Become More Of A Man
You don't need any special qualities to become more masculine. If you want to become more of a man you can. All that you need is the desire, the passion and the will to follow it through. There may be a bit of suffering and pain. Personal development is something that takes hard work. The reason most people struggle is that they lack committment. But if you can battle through you will reap the rewards.
Rule #3 - You Don't Get More Masculine By Changing Your Behavior
Most people think that in order to become more masculine you need to act differently. This is a misconception. Manliness is not behavior, it is a mindset.
You become more masculine by changing the way you think - by thinking like a man. When you change the way you think you will, by default, change the way you act. But this is a by-product of the change in attitude.
Don't target the behavior because you will only feel like you are spinning your wheels. Target the attitude, change the mindset and the actions and behavior will take care of itself.
What You Will Learn Here
This website will teach you how to be courageous, decisive, responsible, selfless and loving through personal development and a shift in attitude. How to be a leader and a role model for others.
By stepping up and becoming a badass young man you will make your own life better. You will become happier, more productive and more successful. And you will make positive change in the world because there will be one more badass in it.
This involves:
- Taking care of your appearance
- Cultivating a healthy body
- Creating healthy relationships with women
- Being self sufficient and taking responsibility
- Having a positive manly attitude
- Succeeding in everything you do
- Accepting yourself
- Personal Development
Who Am I?
My name is Brad Alexander. I wasn't happy with the kind of man society had raised me to be. So I took it upon myself to become more of a man and more of a badass. I study personal development for men and share my own unique insights here.
To learn more about me read my profile page.