Congratulations! You're able to engage yourself well in fulfilling romantic relationships. You are secure because you value yourself and that's why you trust your partner. You know that she has chosen you because you are worth loving and you don't have any irrational fears about her leaving or cheating on you.
Many people struggle in achieving this level of security and confidence, so take pride in yourself. It's also very attractive and will help convince your girl to stay by your side.
However, have you considered that there are still aspects of your relationship holding you back? You could be getting so much more out of your relationship, and not even know it.
One of the key things to think about is to continue to develop yourself as a secure and confident man. Manliness is not a state you achieve and then stay at forever. You have to consistently keep forging ahead and improving yourself.
So what should you do?
Check your email now. I've sent you some material to help you get started and I'll also send you my free book.
And have a look below for some recommendations on how to get better right now.
- Love Your Imperfect Partner
- Give Your Partner Space
- Independence In Relationships
- Be More Romantic
- Be Your Ideal Self
I'm a gym junkie and health and fitness nut. I read about history, politics, economics and culture. I follow Austrian economics and consider myself a value investor.
I'm also a Catholic. Not that this is a religious blog, but this belief system does naturally have a big influence on my views about masculinity and the importance of growing up, establishing a career and settling down with family.
I'm a strong believer in the value of tradition and I am on a mission of improving myself.
I think our culture is sorely lacking when it comes to helping boys to become men.
If you want to learn how to become a man, you can't just expect it to happen naturally anymore. If you leave it to chance our culture will pull you in the opposite direction. You have to consciously choose this path for yourself.
My writing helps men to become better men, to overcome their insecurities and to enjoy better relationships.
In an era where freedom is valued over sacrifice and where committment and settling down are seen as restrictive, I want to argue in favour of tradition masculinity and why this is the ultimate freedom.
I have no special qualifications to speak on this subject. I'm just an ordinary insecure guy with successes and failures. All of this is my own personal opinion and I hope you find it somewhat useful.