Uh oh. I'm sorry to break it to you, but you are extremely insecure and need to take action now.
You don't have a very good grasp on relationships and don't understand that trust means you are never really going to know what your girlfriend or partner is up to. You just have to have faith that she is being true and loyal to you, and you have to do that without verification.
It's not easy if you are paranoid about being hurt or humiliated. But you need to build your self confidence so you understand your own worth and why she has chosen to be with you. Once you value yourself, you won't be so scared that she is looking for any excuse to leave.
If you don't get a handle on this insecurity it could destroy your relationship. A good woman won't tolerate the mistrust and constant doubt of her integrity and character.
You need to recognise that the problem is yours to own and you need to do something about it.
So what should you do?
Check your email now. I've sent you some material to help you get started and I'll also send you my free book.
And have a look below for some recommendations on how to get better right now.
- Stop Obsessive Thoughts
- Trust Again
- Overcome Fear Of Abandonment
- Overcome Fear Of Rejection
- Overcoming Jealousy
I'm a gym junkie and health and fitness nut. I read about history, politics, economics and culture. I follow Austrian economics and consider myself a value investor.
I'm also a Catholic. Not that this is a religious blog, but this belief system does naturally have a big influence on my views about masculinity and the importance of growing up, establishing a career and settling down with family.
I'm a strong believer in the value of tradition and I am on a mission of improving myself.
I think our culture is sorely lacking when it comes to helping boys to become men.
If you want to learn how to become a man, you can't just expect it to happen naturally anymore. If you leave it to chance our culture will pull you in the opposite direction. You have to consciously choose this path for yourself.
My writing helps men to become better men, to overcome their insecurities and to enjoy better relationships.
In an era where freedom is valued over sacrifice and where committment and settling down are seen as restrictive, I want to argue in favour of tradition masculinity and why this is the ultimate freedom.
I have no special qualifications to speak on this subject. I'm just an ordinary insecure guy with successes and failures. All of this is my own personal opinion and I hope you find it somewhat useful.