Becoming naturally attractive to women is not something you can learn in a theoretical sense. It is a way of thinking that you have to absorb, it is a mindset you have to adopt.
What you look like, how well you dress and what you say are of minor importance when making your first impressions and getting to know women.
What matters is a woman's instinctive perceptions about you that she reads from your body language and general demeanor.
If you spend any decent amount of time on the Internet looking at how to improve your abilities with women you will see advice that falls into to broad categories:
- How to come across more confident by improving your tricks, lines and ploys,
- How to improve yourself so you become more confident and interacting with women becomes fun and natural.
Spending any time on the first is an utter waste of time. The second is where you need to dedicate your time.
Then it begs the question - how do I best go about improving myself? Here are some options:
- Reading ebooks
- Watching a video course
- Attending a seminar
- Getting coaching
The problem with ebooks, videos and seminars is that they only teach you the theory. Theory isn't good enough when you are seeking to make permanent changes to the way you operate. There are thousands of dating ebooks out there but none of them can overcome this serious flaw.
Coaching would help, but it expensive and time consuming. Another option that I highly recommend is self guided hypnosis.
I recommend a program called "10 Steps To Be Naturally More Attractive To Women" from HypnosisDownloads.com.
What Is In The Program
This program is designed to get you into a state of deep relaxing where the hypnosis can make fresh impressions on your subconscious and help you develop a more confident approach with women.
It contains ten self guided hypnosis sessions along with a comprehensive instructional PDF, which is incredibly valuable on its own anyway.
These are available individually but the best value is in the combined pack. The pack includes:
- Quick Confidence Booster
- Overcome Self Consciousness
- Be Yourself Socially
- Approaching Women With Confidence
- Be More Attractive To Women
- Confidence With Attractive Women
- Conversation Starter
- Be Funny
- Flirting Confidence
- Dating Confidence
How The Hypnosis Works
The PDF gives you the theory behind each of the steps which is a starter, however theory alone is not going to change any deep seated habits or negative thought patterns.
This is where the hypnosis really helps. The downloads are about twenty minutes long, they begin with a guided meditation to get you relaxed and then follow up with the targeted hypnosis to help change your thought patterns.
Ideally you should listen to each download several times to allow it to really sink in before moving on to the next one. This is not a program that is going to magically change things overnight, but if you commit to it for several weeks you will see some considerable progress.
There will be a temptation to rush because we all want instant gratification. That is why many of the dating ebooks are so tempting because they all seem to offer such amazing solutions.
Sorry to tell you that there is no quick fix, but if you are willing to work on yourself slowly and gradually then self hypnosis will have a big impact.
If you think this sounds like you then check out "10 Steps To Be Naturally Attractive To Women."