Use Prolonged Eye Contact To Flirt And Dominate Any Social Situation

Body language says so much about us. Prolonged eye contact is the key to this. 

You can dominate a group of people with your body language and eye contact alone.

The eyes give away everything about a person. You cannot hide when somebody looks into your eyes.

It's like they are staring straight into your mind. If you are nervous and weak people can tell. Likewise if you are strong and powerful others will take notice.

A badass man stands straight and tall and uses prolonged eye contact to take in his surroundings and assess the other people in the area. He isn't twitching or fidgeting with his eyes flitting all over the place. He is calm and in control and the slow movement of his eyes reflects this.

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Prolonged Eye Contact As A Show Of Force Between Males

Animal species have ways of proving who is the alpha male. Humans are no different. We don't bash antlers or swing clubs, we determine masculine superiority with nothing else but a gaze.

Think about it. This has been occurring all your life. Two men stare at each other and the one who breaks the gaze is the weaker. The man who forces the other to look away is the alpha.

It's not a sign of physical strength, it is a sign of who has the stronger personality and who carries themselves with more bravado and who is dominant within that social situation.

It is very intimidating to try and stare down someone who is more manly than you. But nothing is easier than staring down someone who you know is inferior.

You can improve your sense of masculinity by consciously holding your gaze with other men. Force them to look away. If they make you look away then don't worry. They are more man than you. But you can work on it gradually on people equal or slightly higher than you.

The more people you stare down the more manly you will feel. And the more manly you feel the more people you will be able to stare down. Turn it into a positive cycle. Practice walking into a room and slowly surveying it maintaining eye contact with those who dare meet your gaze.

Flirting Eye Contact With Women

Women love masculine men. It sounds like stating the obvious but since there are so many boyish men these days it is worth saying. They want you to take charge and sweep them off their feet. One of the key ways you exude your masculinity is by maintaining good eye contact with women.

Nothing says to a woman that you are a pussy more than when you make eye contact and break it straight away or the avoidance of eye contact in general. They can tell you have no self-respect and are a total wuss.

Flirting and eye contact go hand in hand. You can flirt with a woman from across the room just by looking at her. Force her to look away, and when she looks back meet her gaze again.

Seek Out Eye Contact With Those You Wish To Dominate

Don't merely maintain eye contact when people look at you. If you want to stamp your authority as the alpha male seek out people's gaze and let others know you are boss. The importance of eye contact cannot be overstated.

And if you want to flirt with a woman don't wait for her to look at you. Get her attention by gazing at her and make contact when she looks your way.

The Difference Between Staring And Prolonged Eye Contact

A gaze is where you look in a general direction. A stare is when you look directly at a point. When you look make sure you gaze, but don't stare. Prolonged eye contact is not staring, it is just holding contact longer than usual and forcing the other person to look away. Don't stare at people because it is rude and unclassy.

If someone refuses to make eye contact then look away. Don't stare them down. And if someone more manly than you isn't looking away then you might want to break the gaze. If you keep looking they might break your nose.

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