The good news is that you are not a totally insecure train wreck.
The bad news is that you still have some way to go to fully banish insecurity for good.
It’s clear you know the core basics of how to make a relationship work (communication, love, and trust). But you do have a tendency to become insecure from time to time in moments of weakness.
When this happens it makes you feel extremely uncomfortable and it puts your partner in an awkward situation if you tell her. You know she isn't doing anything wrong but deep down something doen't feel right. She knows she isn't doing anything wrong yet she finds herself under a cloud of suspicion.
Her reassurances don't help and you need to find a more lasting solution because these insecure moments are holding you back from the fulfilling relationship that you want.
So what should you do?
Check your email now. I've sent you some material to help you get started and I'll also send you my free book.
And have a look below for some recommendations on how to get better right now.
- Overcome Fear Of Rejection
- Stop Obsessive Thoughts
- Trust Again
- Independence In Relationships
- Insecurity In Relationships
I'm a gym junkie and health and fitness nut. I read about history, politics, economics and culture. I follow Austrian economics and consider myself a value investor.
I'm also a Catholic. Not that this is a religious blog, but this belief system does naturally have a big influence on my views about masculinity and the importance of growing up, establishing a career and settling down with family.
I'm a strong believer in the value of tradition and I am on a mission of improving myself.
I think our culture is sorely lacking when it comes to helping boys to become men.
If you want to learn how to become a man, you can't just expect it to happen naturally anymore. If you leave it to chance our culture will pull you in the opposite direction. You have to consciously choose this path for yourself.
My writing helps men to become better men, to overcome their insecurities and to enjoy better relationships.
In an era where freedom is valued over sacrifice and where committment and settling down are seen as restrictive, I want to argue in favour of tradition masculinity and why this is the ultimate freedom.
I have no special qualifications to speak on this subject. I'm just an ordinary insecure guy with successes and failures. All of this is my own personal opinion and I hope you find it somewhat useful.