So you have been with her for a little while now and you want to make sure that you know how to treat your girl right. After all if you fail to do so then you may find yourself solo once again.
The good news is that knowing what it takes to treat your girl right is pretty straight forward stuff.
The difficult part is actually implementing it on a regular basis. Try and make it habit if you can and life will become much easier than if you are consciously trying to remember all the time.
Be Her Partner, Don't Treat Her As Your Possession
I don't think it has ever been a good idea to treat a woman like a possession. But if it ever was, those days are well and truly gone.
Anyway it's not in your best interests to do that. In order to have a fulfilling rewarding relationship you want your significant other to be an equal match for you, intellectually, emotionally and even financially.
Make Time For Her
Don't ever let your partner dominate your time and demand you spend it all with her at the expense of the rest of your life. But if you give her nothing of your time then you definitely are not treating her right.
You have to find the right balance, although that will depend on how long you have been together and whether or not you live with each other.
Be generous with time because it is the one commodity we are all in limited supply of.
This isn't just the cliche of being honest in the fact that you aren't cheating, and it's not just being honest in what you say to her.
It is about being honest with regards to who you are. The temptation in a relationship, especially in the early stages, is to send out a representation of our real selves. It is natural that you want to show the best side of you, but this comes at the expense of allowing her to see the real you.
Because at the end of the day if your real selves don't click then it's best to get that out in the open early on, rather than drag it out over time because you are hiding.
On the other side if your real selves do click then you are better to show yourself off right from the get go. She will appreciate this honesty from you and it will demonstrate that you are a really genuine guy.
Don't Expect Too Much From Her
It may seem funny that you are told to lower your expectations when the issue is how you treat your girl right. But I think this is a crucial one.
You need to give her the space to have her failings. She needs to know that she doesn't have to be perfect, she doesn't always have to get it right and that you are okay with that.
The more you show her that you are okay with her flaws, the more she will open up and be comfortable really being herself.
Try And Give Her What She Wants Without Her Having To Ask
This is the holy grail of treating your girl right and is the mystic key to relationships with women.
No man is ever going to get it right all the time, and you can't be expected to even get it right a small amount of the time.
But if you sense an opportunity, if it becomes obvious to you what she wants, try and give it to her before she has to ask.
This may be giving her a hug, asking how her day was, taking out the trash or even knowing to give her some space for a while. If you can get this one right even just once in a while it will go a long way to making sure that you are treating your girl right.
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