Lesson #1: What Women Want From A Relationship - A Bird's Eye View
The purpose of this first lesson is to show you the bigger picture and give you an overview of what women want from a relationship.
Each of these different aspects will then be covered in more detail as you progress through the course.
It is important to note that these different features certain ones are more important to some women than to others. None of these is unimportant, but the weighting of which ones are more important will vary from person to person. Unfortunately I can't tell you which are the important ones for your girl - you will have to figure that one out.
You don't need to have all of these traits to have a successful relationship, but you need to be at least hitting a few. Of course some of these things will come naturally to you and others will require more hard work.
If you are already doing some of these well, don't rest on your laurels. Keep working at it and become better. If you are struggling on some of these then this is where you need to focus your attention.
Use this as a blueprint for your own personal growth. What a woman wants, you need to become.
These are the things that women want from men in relationships:
If you hit all those bases you will find yourself to be a very desirable partner. Women will be queuing up for you, and the one who is with you will be very unlikely to leave.
Of course it's true that not all women necessarily have all the traits that make them desirable partners as well.
But dating and relationships are a market. In a relationship people offer each other value for value. It is all unspoken, but it is there. People end up with someone who offers them equivalent or similar amount of relationship capital.
You don't see a confident, secure, fit and healthy, good looking woman with a well paying job in a relationship with a guy who is unemployed, out of shape, emotionally insecure and living with his mom. It just doesn't happen.
So if you are insecure about whether you are meeting your girlfriend's needs in your relationship don't worry that you aren't good enough.
Instead direct that energy into personal development and work to improve yourself.
Don't do it for her. Do it for you, because you want to become a better man. The positive spin off is that you will become a much more desirable relationship partner.
Task For Today
Look at this list of traits above. Jot down your thoughts on where you score highly and where you score poorly.
Remember that understanding what women want is just the beginning. Ultimately you will have to take some action.
Start brainstorming about the areas you want to improve upon.
See you in a couple of days with Lesson #2.
These lessons are important, but they are just the start. Understanding what women want is crucial but it is just half of the issue.
You then have to be able to take that information and put it to good use. What that means is becoming a high value man who can meet the needs of a high value woman.
One of the biggest things that holds men back is insecurity. When you feel ready to confront your insecurity, I recommend that you use the self hypnosis program "10 Steps To Overcoming Insecurity In Relationships."
This home hypnosis course will help you break the pattern of negative thinking and transform you into a confident and secure man.